So Very Sorry  / Kimberly Mommy To An Angel Angela (Passing by )
There are no words to comfort your sorrow or your pain.  I hope you find solace in eachother, your family & friends. 

Even if I knew tomorrow that the world would go to pieces; I would still plant my apple tree.
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Beautiful Buster  / Bridget (Lauren's Mum)
What a gorgeous and happy little boy.  Another special and much loved child, now an angel.  Lauren, I know you'll be giving Buster lots of cuddles and singing him lullabies.  We miss you so much, our angel children, but we know that one day we will all be together again.
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Precious Boy  / Anthea
Thank you for sharing your precious son with us, what a beautiful boy and full of mischeif no doubt.  Life is so empty and meaningless now isnt it but you will always be remembered by your family and all us mummys and daddies who no longer have someone to cuddle.Love and strength.
Ethans mummy.xxxxx I hope you have fun playing with my boy, he is the same age as you and just as much of a monkey!! Close

I'm so very sorry..  / Jamie Hart (none)
Greetings,
I am so very sorry for the loss of precious little Buster!!  I know the pain of losing a child all too well.  My first and only child was born still, full term, 1-23-05.  When Miller died, he took a big part of me with him and it's a daily, hourly struggle to survive.  I'm sticking to my faith in God and praying for help.  I too will pray for you.  It is my hope that you find peace and that you can genuinely be happy sometime soon.  I know Buster would want that for you.  I try to think happy thoughts.. about our Angels playing together.  I hope thoughts like that help you as well.
Many, many blessings!

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Another sad loss  / Natalie &. Nick (Madison's Mummy &. Daddy) (TCF)

We just wanted to pay you our sincere condolences on the loss of your handsome son Buster and say what a wonderful name you chose for him.
Somewhere far away all our children are playing together happy, safe and healthy waiting for their loved ones to join them one day.
Our thoughts are with you and our hearts go out to you and all your family.
Take Care
Natalie & Nick xxx
Madison's Mummy & Daddy xxx

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So sweet...  / Eva Bates (Mommy of 2 angels )
I'm so sorry for the tragic passing of little Buster (I love his name!). I too lost my little girl, Charlotte to pneumonia and prematurity. Just know that your precious little Buster and my little ones are happily playing in heaven. They will be waiting for their mommies and daddies at the gates when it is time for us to come home to them. God bless you, and may He comfort you in knowing that its not goodbye, but see you soon little ones. Most sincerely, Eva Bates www.charlotterosebates.memory-of.com Close

Broken Chain  / Diane Cassidy- Angel Mom-Katie
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Never to Be Forgotten  / Katie Tolliver (Passer By )
Never to be Forgotten  

 "Christopher Robin?," whispered Pooh. "Yes, Pooh Bear?"
"I'll never not remember you...ever."


What a beautiful angel baby.  May you try ever so hard to be happy for what you have had, and not be sadden for to long over what you have lost.
May your memories in time turn your tears of sadness to smiles.
Take care of yourself and love one another, till you may hold him in your arms once again.
My deepest condolences.

Big Sister of,
www.jimmyg.memory-of.com

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Sweet precious little boy!  / Frances Lee (Mommy to Angel Adam )
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Buster.  I read all your tributes to your precious little boy, and they are all wonderful. As indeed he is.  I laughed and cried at the wonderful stories of his birth, bath, games...thank you so much for sharing them.  This is a pain no parent should have to go through.  I agree with you that in this day and age, flying men to the moon, finding cures for rare illnesses, cloning sheep, etc, they seemed to ignore,(neglect), the signs of a sick little boy.  I am so very sorry for your pain.
Your family are in my thoughts at this time.

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Beautiful angels  / Emma Auntie To Angel Jessica Szydelko


May I offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful angel Buster, my sister too lost an angel, Jessica was born 23 weeks into pregnancy due a cord incident. She was so small but in every way perfect. Both Jessica and Buster are beautiful angels and are playing together with all the other angels in heaven.

All my love to you and your family.
Please feel free to visit Jessica's site.
www.jessica-szydelko.memeory-of.com




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Absolutely Gorgeous  / Jackie Mollie &. Lucys Mummy
Dear Grere and Steve,

I have always enjoyed reading your postings on TCF as I can feel the wonderful relationship you had with Buster.

It's great that I can see photos of him to get to know him a little better.  He is an absolute beauty and the name Buster is perfect for him, such a cheeky name for a cheeky chappie!

Losing a child is the most devastating thing a parent has to endure. I hope the many precious memories you have of Buster help to sustain you in some way.

Lots of Love
Jackie

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for your mummy and daddy  / Lisa Copeland
A beautiful little angel showed up to Heaven's gates Confused and unknowing the plan that for him awaits. Then another little angel walked up and took his hand and said, "Please don't be sad you left, you're in the Promised Land." "I'm glad to be here but I do not think I was to go, Perhaps there was a mistake, for my mommy wanted me so." The little greeting angel gave a sweet smile and said, "My mommy wanted me too, but to Heaven I was led. You see, we do not get to choose when on Earth it's time to go. He gave us life, love and joy and a mother's womb to grow. The Lord still needs new angels to guide them down on earth. To watch over, comfort them, and help them see their worth." "Is there still a way that I can sleep in my mommy's bed?" The greeting angel grinned and said, "that luxury you'll keep. I visit my mommy nightly and softly sing her to sleep." The little angel replied, "then I think I'll like it here. I'll visit my mommy nightly and weaken her pain and fears. I love her and will keep her safe at night and in between, And let her know with a sweet memory that she is still with me." The greeting angel gave her new friend a big hug and said, "Until our mommy's meet us here, let's be best angel friends." "Okay," said the new angel, "that sounds good to me." Then the angels sat and played keeping their mommy's in sight, Humming the tunes to the song they would sing to their mommy's tonight Close

for your mummy  / Lisa Copeland
~ Can You Be A Mother When Your Baby Is Not With You? ~  

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard Him say.

"A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
"But God can you be a Mother,
when your baby's not with you?"

"Yes, you can," He replied
With confidence in His voice
"I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.

Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay."

"I just don't understand this God
I want my baby to be here."
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat,
And then I saw the tear.

"I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child's smile,
With all the other children and say..."

We go to earth to learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear,
My mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come straight here.

I feel so lucky to have a Mom,
Who had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My mommy set me free.

I miss my mommy oh so much
But I visit her every day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillows were I lay

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here."

"So you see my dear sweet ones,
Your children are okay.
Your babies are born here in My home
And this is where they'll stay."

"They'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lessons through.
And on the day that you come home
they'll be at the gates for you.

So now you see what makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.

Though some on earth may not realize
You are a mother.
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
and know that you are the best one."

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard Him say.

"A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
"But God can you be a Mother,
when your baby's not with you?"

"Yes, you can," He replied
With confidence in His voice
"I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.

Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay."

"I just don't understand this God
I want my baby to be here."
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat,
And then I saw the tear.

"I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child's smile,
With all the other children and say..."

We go to earth to learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear,
My mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come straight here.

I feel so lucky to have a Mom,
Who had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My mommy set me free.

I miss my mommy oh so much
But I visit her every day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillows were I lay

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here."

"So you see my dear sweet ones,
Your children are okay.
Your babies are born here in My home
And this is where they'll stay."

"They'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lessons through.
And on the day that you come home
they'll be at the gates for you.

So now you see what makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.

Though some on earth may not realize
You are a mother.
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
and know that you are the best one."

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Dear Mr Postman  / Irena Hill (Kayleigh's nanny )
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Dear Mr Postman  / Irena Hill (none Kayleigh's nanny )
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Hi beautiful boy  / Amy(Freya's Mummy) (Angel mummy )
Hi Buster

Freya's mummy here. it's so lovely to see your face ! and what a beautiful face !
I have heard so much about you and what a wonderful little boy you are.

I hope you and Freya are up to lots of mischief.

Lots of cuddles for you buster     

Love Amy xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Grere-  Thankyou so much for sharing Buster with us. The Photo's are lovely  x
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What a smasher  / Jackie Butcher (TCF Friend )
Dearest Grere & Steve,

How wonderful of you to share that with us, how lovely to put a face to that extraordinary name. How that name suits him. Close

WOW! / Funda Sibels Mummy

I have heard lots about you Buster, about that beautiful smile of yours and those lovely eyes...well tell Mummy she is very naughty...as no words can describe how gorgeous you really are.....that smile that lights up the whole computer screen and those lovely (no adoring!) blue eyes....bet all the little girls adore you Buster!   Bet all the girls come running around you in Heaven, good job you have the Angels protecting you! x I hope you and Sibel (and all the other special Angel children) are having lots of fun in Heaven, but us Mummies and Daddies are missing you guys so much!



For Busters Mummy and Daddy

You have a beautiful Son and having lost my little girl, Sibel, 15 months ago, I know how painful it is to live without them.  I read often your posts and know how special and wonderful Buster was (and still is !!! in Heaven) and how he enriched your life...but somewhere amongst the grief is a blessing that they were in our lives, albeit for far not enough, and they leave us with a leagacy of love and special times that can never be taken from us....may we cling to these in our darkest days until we can be with our precious babies again.

Wishing you strength and peace for every day, with my love Funda x

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tribute / Marie Kerrigan (friend of mummy )
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YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND PRECIOUS SON BUSTER  / Frances &. Mike Speakman (TCF of Grere & Steve )

Dear Grere & Steve

Such beautiful photographs of your Buster, what a truly handsome boy he is, we send you both our heartfelt sympathy for your loss, and know nothing we say is can take away the pain, but to let you know we think about your lovely little boy and the great loss you both have suffered.

We send you both lots of love & courage as you face the future, which we know only to well is very hard!

Take care and lots of love.....

Frances & Mike  xxxx


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